Today marks the 41st anniversary of my Dad's passing. So many years have passed.So many major events. Weddings,births etc. I can still remember that day like it was yesterday.It was one of the worst days of my life.I felt like a part of me died that day too. For so many years I dreaded this day. The memories,the pain....then on November 16th 2005 that all changed.I had just gotten out of class when my phone rang. Our lil Sammi was born.She was about 3 weeks early but she was